Consciousness chapter from the new book

Aloha, how are you guys? Look at the tree of life is back. I’m excited. not full yet, but it’s getting there got to work on my hair a little bit though I’m growing that back. Not. So today I want to share the first paragraph from chapter 29. I just finished writing it today. And it could be life changing for you guys if you get what I’m trying to explain. So the name of the chapter is how the map of consciousness can elucidate relationship issues. And before I read this paragraph, I just want to explain the map of consciousness was created by David Hawkins. And he used it to calibrate different levels of consciousness that we have. And it explains so much to me. You know, I’ve been a therapist for 44 plus years now. And when you see different levels of consciousness in relationships, it’s mind boggling because you don’t see the same reality as the other person does. If you’re three, two or three levels higher, you’re not gonna you’re in the world, but you’re not gonna see the world the way your partner does. Your family does your friends do. And that’s why learning this has helped me a lot with especially in relationship issues with clients. So let me read this chapter. First, Dr. David Hawkins created his map of consciousness many years ago. It was in the 70s. He was a psychiatrist working in psychiatric units. When he started to wonder about the patient’s consciousness levels was their diagnosis a symptom of their individual consciousness levels he wandered. He started doing research using a PI kinesiology to measure their levels. Kinesiology is a muscle testing technique, which taps into the consciousness grip. His research enabled him to find consistent answers to his questions, which allowed him to create a map for navigating an individual’s consciousness number. His map has many levels, with characteristics for each level. For instance, if a person calibrates in fear, which is 100 to 124, their god view is punitive. Their life field is frightening. Their emotion is anxiety, and their processes withdrawal. If a person calibrates an acceptance, which is 350 to 399, their god Vo is merciful, their life feels harmonious, their their emotion is forgiveness and their processes transcendence. You can see that both have totally different view of life. So don’t argue with them. They are both seeing it clearly with their consciousness glasses. So don’t bother convincing them otherwise. If the fair calibration says that life is scary, but the acceptance calibrations as full of harmony, when they tried to communicate their perception, the other one will not understand it. We will become more discerning with people when we comprehend Hawkins map of consciousness and less judgmental because we will see where they’re coming from. One a rabbi Joe’s quote stated, there’s only one tree here. But every one sees it differently. I believe he was identifying Hawkins concepts but to Torah glasses. Whatever level we’re at determines how we think how we feel, how we react and how we describe existence. communicating with people at other levels becomes an art, which I had to develop in my therapy practice. I work differently with acceptance calibration clients, versus fear calibration clients, since I’ve been studying his map, which is about 25 years now. Where it becomes interesting is working with couples who are not close to the same number because they both live in different realities. And the whole chapter flushes flushes out talks about a more different examples of that. But when you think about levels of consciousness, this especially if you’re in a relationship, if you’re you’re at acceptance, but your partner is in anger, you don’t see the same world. It’s gonna be hard to communicate. It’s basically that simple. But when Hawkins came up with this map, and grew it and calibrated things and did tons of research and that he was mind blown by what he was seeing with pay Well, especially in psychiatric unit units, because you don’t incite units, we like to label people diagnose and you’re paranoid. You’re a narcissist is your depressive in that? Well, could those be the symptoms of your consciousness level. And I’m still playing with this idea myself. I haven’t had time lately, to go down the math and see which diagnosis fits which one, I probably should just muscle test and calibrate it all. That would be easier, right? So I wanted to share this with you guys today to help you understand why you have relationship issues. And this is another another big way I think of looking at it. Because like Rabbi Joel said, there’s only one tree here, but nobody sees the same tree. So think of that as reality. Okay, everybody sees a different reality from where you’re calibrating how you see reality, how you feel in reality, etc, etc, things like that. So if you get a chance, check out some Hawkins his work. I know he’s on YouTube. I don’t know, if he had a website, he’s been gone now since 2011. I think he died in 2011. But his books are still out there, you can buy them on Amazon. One of the books I’ve recommended to this chapter is transcending your consciousness levels, finding the stairway to enlightenment. And what I like about that book is he takes each calibration level, and writes about four to eight pages about each one, to understand it, and then what you need to do to raise yourself to the next level. Here’s the biggest problem I’ve encountered. When I work with clients that calibrate below 200, they’re not very empowered to call according to his research, so it’s really hard to get them to do their mud work. Typically, when I get clients to 80 or above, they’re willing to do the deeper work, not just talking therapy, because I’ll do that. I like doing that. But to do the mud work, you clear out the lower chakra issues, as I talked about in this chapter. And you free yourself up to ascend to the higher chakra levels. So if you’re in a relationship, and it’s not going well, you may want to get a hold of us find out what are your levels, we need permission to do this. And like I said, if if you’re three or four levels above your mate, good luck guys. That’s all I’m gonna say, Rod. Or accept this as the best they can do and love them for that and be compassionate, because they only can see it for more their city, their consciousness level. So I don’t encourage people to run out a relationship. But the hardest part is accepting this is who they are. Good, bad, right or wrong. They can’t help it. You know, one of my dear friends calibrates and fear. And my brother and I love him like a brother, right? But we know who he is, we know what he can do and can’t do. So we don’t push them a lot. We don’t have a lot of expectations that he’s going to take a lot of risks of that. Okay, because he can’t he doesn’t have the courage inside of him to do that. So just something to think about. Well, while you’re eating dinner tonight, listen to this. And hopefully, this will be one of my favorite chapters of the book chapter 29 is writing. He people keep saying how many chapters you’re doing. I don’t know. I guess see how many are in here. See what my conscious is about to bring to the surface. All right, enjoy the evening. Look at that sky here in Northwest Indiana day. It’s beautiful. I play pickleball today had a blast out there and didn’t hurt myself. I was grateful for that. So I’ll be in touch. So love you guys. God bless.