Grieving and Our Ships Rudder!

psychodrama workshop, relationship therapy, grieving, reality change, higher dimension, soul’s purpose, rudder metaphor, David Deida, David Hawkins, consciousness level, addiction counselor, kinesiology, relationship struggles, parts therapy, soul’s essence

Eli discusses three main topics: a psychodrama workshop video featuring a couple using parts therapy to improve their relationship, the concept of grieving as the old reality dies and gives way to a higher dimension, and the importance of having a clear purpose in life, which he calls the “Eli effect.” Eli emphasizes that our soul’s purpose drives us and should guide our choices, relationships, and careers. He shares personal anecdotes, including quitting a post office job to become a therapist and using kinesiology to measure soul fulfillment in different careers. Eli concludes by encouraging viewers to watch the video and consider parts therapy for relationship issues.

Grieving and Our Ships Rudder: Introduction and Context

• Eli begins the meeting by greeting everyone and mentioning the change they are experiencing.
• Eli introduces three main topics: a video from a psychodrama workshop, grieving, and the concept of a “rudder” for our lives.
• The psychodrama workshop video features a couple working on their relationship using parts therapy and is recommended for those interested.
• Eli notes that the couple is doing better now that they understand their relationship dynamics.

Grieving: The End of 3D Reality

• Eli discusses the feeling of grieving, describing it as if the current reality is dying.
• Eli shares that they recently had lab tests and received good results, but still feel a sense of loss.
• Eli explains that this feeling is due to the transition from a 3D reality to a higher, more emotional and conscious dimension.
• Eli mentions that people’s interests and activities may change as they ascend energetically and vibrationally.

Impact of Grieving on Interests and Relationships

• Eli notes that people are not handling the transition well, with many feeling depressed and disinterested in previous activities.
• Eli emphasizes that it’s normal to lose interest in activities that were based on the old 3D reality.
• Eli suggests that the current feelings of disinterest are a result of the changing reality and not personal issues.
• Eli mentions that they hear similar feelings from people in their practice, even if they don’t express it directly.

The Importance of Having a Purpose: Introduction to Chapter 51

• Eli introduces the concept of having a “rudder” for our lives, using a metaphor from David Deida’s book, “The Way of the Superior Man.”
• Eli reads a paragraph from Chapter 51 of their book, which ties together the themes of the previous chapters.
• Eli explains that having a clear purpose guides every move in life, even if it seems illogical or ridiculous.
• Eli shares a personal story about quitting a job at the post office to pursue a career in therapy, driven by their soul’s purpose.

Personal Stories and Soul’s Purpose

• Eli recounts how their father’s resistance to their career change motivated them to stay on their chosen path.
• Eli explains that our soul’s purpose constantly gnaws at us until we find it, like a DNA itch.
• Eli shares that in their early 40s, with the guidance of Rabbi Joel, they became aware of their purpose: to raise the consciousness level on the planet one person at a time.
• Eli mentions that raising one person’s consciousness affects the whole of humanity, as taught by David Hawkins.

Motivation and Addiction

• Eli discusses the importance of knowing one’s soul’s purpose in guiding choices, relationships, and careers.
• Eli notes that many people never discover their soul’s purpose, leading to addictions, depression, or suicide.
• Eli relates to the addiction issue personally and emphasizes the importance of finding fulfillment in one’s work.
• Eli and Tim use kinesiology to calibrate the soul’s essence involved in different activities, showing the importance of finding work that stimulates the soul.

Conclusion and Final Thoughts

• Eli encourages listeners to check out the video from the couple and consider parts therapy if they are in a struggling relationship.
• Eli concludes the meeting by wishing everyone a good day and promising to be in touch soon.
• Eli reiterates the importance of understanding and following one’s soul’s purpose for a fulfilling life.
• Eli signs off with a blessing and farewell.

Hola, happy Tuesday. How are you guys? What a change we’re going through. So I want to talk about a couple of three things today. If you haven’t watched it yet, we shared a video last Monday from the psychodrama workshop with a couple that were working on their relationship with parts therapy. It was amazing. It’s a little over an hour, but if you get a chance to watch part of it, see if it resonates with you. I’ve talked to them, both of them, the couple, they’re doing a lot better, because now they understand what the heck was going on in their relationship. Number two, grieving. I don’t know how you guys are feeling, but it feels like I’m dying. Now, as far as I know, I’m physically not dying. I just had my labs drawn, and everything looked pretty good, according to my nurse practitioner. But I think this reality is dying, and I think that’s why so many people are feeling depressed, kind of in the things like that, because the reality as we know it is leaving now, are we going anywhere? No, but you’re going to see things differently. It’s going to feel different here, you know, like relationships, the things you were interested in are just not going to do it anymore, because that was based in 3d vibrations and that, you know, we’re going to a higher dimension, emotionally speaking and consciously. So if you’re not wanting to watch golf, football, your soaps, your love stories. If you’re not wanting to go out and do things with friends, that’s normal right now, because it’s it’s dying, it just doesn’t. And I don’t know, I may be ahead of some of you with this work or with my awareness and that, but I do hear from people, not as directly as I’m saying it here, but they just feel this, this, yeah, with life, I’m going to do this, but I’m really not sparked to do it, guys and gals, this is the way it is. Your interests are going to be different, okay? Because I think we were into all the things we’re into because of the reality we’re living in. Well, as we’re ascending energetically and vibrationally, and boy, are we. You can see it in the world. People are not handling this. The frogs in the pot are going a little crazy in the world. And we’ll just leave that out there. I won’t pick out anybody in the world, but people are just not dealing with it well. But the grieving thing is jumping out a lot for me in my practice with people. And like I said, they’re not saying it directly, but I’m hearing it underneath what they’re saying. And if you don’t believe in any of this, and that’s okay if you don’t, but if you’re feeling all that, just know there’s a reason for it. Okay. Number three, let’s talk about a rudder to our ship. Do you have a rudder? Let me read paragraph two from the new chapter. I’m writing what I what I’m doing in Chapter 51 because I am coming to the end of the book. I can feel it. I may have like another eight or 10 chapters, and I’m going to start working on publishing it, getting it out there. But what I tried to trying to do in Chapter 51 is tie the other 50 chapters together, explaining that force, which I call my Eli effect, that force that has been driving me all these years. So let me just read paragraph two, the the so i i talked about there were pieces that came together for me to put me back together, like Humpty. Dumpty, the first piece was fighting my soul’s purpose, which became clearer as I got older. In in David data’s book, The Way of the Superior Man, he said, our purpose is like the rudder on the ship without a rudder, our life ship just floats around the ocean without any direction whatsoever. Having a clear purpose guides every move in life, even if it feels illogical or ridiculous. Quitting the post office at age 23 to go to college seemed risky because of the safety of that job, because everybody needs their mail. They still need it all these years later, but deep down, I knew that my soul was not being fed by dropping off letters in a mailbox. I wanted to help people which was not being satiated as a mailman, becoming a therapist was in my soul. I just needed to trust my dissatisfaction and jump out of the metaphorical plane plus ISIS. Expected I was on the correct path when my dad thought I was nuts. Frequently, our family doesn’t see the path we see for ourselves and will not support it initially or ever. The resist. Their resistance can either control us or motivate us us. Motivate us to jump. So when my dad was I am. I don’t know why you’re doing that. I That motivated me. I’m on the right path. Dad, what, what many people, including our families, don’t understand is that our soul’s purpose constantly gnaws at us until we find it like scratching us like our DNA. Our soul’s formula yearns to be embodied fully. This formula iterates over over the years, like every fractal formula does, getting us closer to what it wants us to do. In my early 40s, with the guidance of Rabbi Joel, I became aware of my purpose and my purpose, what I’m clear on today is to raise the consciousness level on the planet one person at a time. I’m not going to go out and change the world, but if I can help one person change and raise their consciousness, the whole world is affected in a positive way. What I learned from David Hawkins work on consciousness is that raising one person’s consciousness affects the whole of humanity. Wow. Knowing this enables me to stay motivated every day at the office, which feels like an awesome mission. Knowing our soul’s purpose is what should be guiding our choices, relationships and careers. Unfortunately, there are too many of us who never discovered it, which leads us into addictions, depression or even suicide. And I can relate to the addiction thing. Trust me when I say, if you put the pieces together, you will never work a day in your life. And that’s so true. So think about that, you know, and Tim and I, we we calibrate. We use Kinesiology. Let’s say you’re I was a mailman. I think we calibrated that how much of my soul’s essence was involved in that out of zero to 100 I think it was 22% if I remember correct, it was really low. Me as a therapist, am I at 100% and it feels like that. My brother is an addiction counselor. He’s at 100% we calibrated that. So if you’re really not getting your soul stimulated, run, forest. Run. Alright. Listen, enjoy your day. I wanted to talk about these topics, and I will be in touch soon. Check out the video from the couple, if you haven’t seen it yet, and if you want to try it, if you’re in a relationship and you’re struggling a parts party could be the party you’re looking for. Alright, God bless. Bye. Bye. You.