The dangers of dating unconsciously!

 

Video Summary Keywords

dating dangers, unconscious choices, healing work, subconscious mind, relationship dynamics, survival mode, spirit possession, higher self, lower self, chakra clearing, emotional trauma, personal growth, relationship advice, spiritual guidance, self-awareness

Video Summary

Eli discusses the dangers of dating unconsciously, emphasizing the importance of healing work. He notes that most people are only 5% conscious, with the subconscious mind making 95% of decisions. Eli shares experiences of individuals attracted to drama and chaos due to their subconscious needs. He highlights the impact of unresolved trauma and spirit possession, noting that 78% of people he’s worked with are possessed. Eli advises being cautious in relationships and suggests doing healing work to avoid attracting negative influences. He also mentions the upcoming publication of his book in 90 days.

Dangers of Dating Unhealed People

  • Eli discusses the importance of dating people who have done their healing work, emphasizing that unhealed individuals can bring negative influences into one’s life.
  • Eli shares his frustration with people who have done some healing but still attract unhealed partners, highlighting the cycle of bringing each other’s “crap” into the relationship.
  • Eli recounts his experience as a young reporter, where he would ask potential dates about their healing work and immediately end the conversation if they hadn’t done any.
  • Eli mentions his friend Rabbi Joe Dispenza’s literature, which explains how the body is accustomed to certain chemicals and feelings from childhood, and how this affects relationships.

Subconscious Influences in Relationships

  • Eli explains that only 5% of our actions are conscious, while the other 95% are driven by the subconscious mind, which can lead to unhealthy relationship choices.
  • Eli shares a story about a woman in her early 40s who has been in chaotic relationships due to her subconscious mind attracting similar partners.
  • Eli emphasizes the importance of doing healing work to strengthen the conscious mind and make better relationship choices.
  • Eli compares the subconscious mind’s influence in relationships to the body’s cravings for unhealthy foods or the mind’s urges to use drugs, highlighting the need for self-control.

The Battle Between Higher and Lower Self

  • Eli discusses the concept of the higher self, which is guided by a higher power, and the lower self, which is driven by survival instincts and desires.
  • Eli explains that most people are in survival mode because they haven’t cleared out their lower chakras, which are associated with survival instincts.
  • Eli mentions his experience teaching rebirthing classes, which help clear out the gunk in the lower chakras, but notes that many people don’t stick with it.
  • Eli introduces the concept of spirit possession, where people can unknowingly carry around negative entities that affect their behavior and well-being.

Spirit Possession and Its Impact

  • Eli shares a story about a young lady who experienced a shift in her behavior, which turned out to be due to a spirit possession.
  • Eli explains that spirit possession is common, with 78% of people he has worked with being possessed, and that low vibrations, survival mode, and anger make people more susceptible.
  • Eli advises people to be cautious when dating, as unhealed partners can bring negative influences into their lives.
  • Eli emphasizes the importance of doing healing work to stay in control of one’s life and relationships.

Eli’s Upcoming Book and Final Thoughts

  • Eli announces that his book will be published in 90 days and expresses excitement about sharing the wisdom he has been given.
  • Eli reflects on the process of writing the book and how his higher self guided him through it.
  • Eli advises people to stay open and to be mindful of their environment, especially in areas with poor air quality.
  • Eli concludes by wishing everyone a lovely weekend and encouraging them to stay away from negative influences.

Video Transcript

Hola, happy. Saturday, been a minute since I talked to you guys. I’ve been busy. Look the ELI book. It’s coming. He did a great job with that tight identity, William, I love you. So it’s being processed now, edited, all the things that publishers do, and my job is done. So I thought I’d talk to you guys today. I got some time. You know, I’ve been doing what I do for 44 years. I’m going out 44 anyway, if you’re dating unhealed people, God bless you. I see this every day of the week, especially if you’ve worked on yourself. You’ve done enough of your healing work that you deserve better. You are not going to fix anybody. Yes, everybody has potential, right? Everybody does. The Divine is within us. So why are we seeing it a lot? And you know, the last talk I did, I shared the last chapter to the book, and basically we are all Humpty, Dumpty who fell off that wall, and very few people that I know, number one, recognize they’re splintered, but they haven’t put themselves back together again. Yeah, they may, you know, put a little bit here, a little bit there, but really the deep healing, and I am just so I don’t want to say tired, frustrated with these amazing people that have done their work, and I’ve got a couple of handfuls right now that I’m working with, and they fought for these people that haven’t done their work, and guess what, their crap will become your crap. I’ve had family members go through this recently, and it’s like guys wake up. When I was a young stud dating a lot, I’d go on my first date as a reporter, and I share this all the time with my clients, and I’d be asking all kinds of questions about their background, their childhoods, their traumas, whatever it is, and I’d get the information I needed. And my second question was, well, what kind of healing work have you done? And if they said done, I said, Goodbye. I don’t care what they look like, how sweet they were, because I knew that stuff would come to the surface. You know, my buddy and aka Rabbi Joe Dispenza, has talked so much about this in his literature, about how the body likes its chemicals, the feelings that it’s used to from our childhood. I’ve got a lady I’ve been working with. She’s in her early 40s, and I think every relationship she’s been in has been drama and chaos. Wow. How did she figure that out? Well, I do know that her upbringing was full of drama and chaos, and so the body is used to those chemicals, those feelings of living like that, and she hopefully is figuring it out now to see by picking the people and she’s not doing the picking, the subconscious mind is doing the picking, and that should scare the living crap out of you. Joe says we’re only 5% conscious unless we really start doing our healing work. So just think about this, 95% of the time, your unconscious or subconscious mind is making your choices for you. Boy, are we on a leash. Get off the leash. And it’s incredible how that works. You know, I tell this story that I probably shared this before with you guys. When I got sober off of cocaine, my body loved the dopamine. Okay, in that first year of sobriety, my mind wanted to stay sober by getting all these thoughts and urges to get high. You’ve done good. You can do a little bit. It’s been six months and on and on and went now, from Joe’s wonderful research, I understand what was going on. I wasn’t having those thoughts. That was my subconscious mind tricking me, almost like the devil on my shoulder, testing me, tempting me. You know, he in his book, he says the mind has to be stronger than the feelings you have to stay committed. Think about like working out or eating healthier and that, and all of a sudden you’re getting cravings for crap food or you’re not wanting to go the gym now you want to get better. You know? This. So what’s going on the body it wants, what it wants folks in relationships, it works the same way, like this lady, I’m talking about her subconscious. I could, I could put her in a room with 100 men. 99 are pretty healthy guys. There’s one guy in that room that will create the chemicals that her body requires, and she’ll find him like a moth go into the flame. It’s incredible how this works. And you look at the relationships you know in your life, like I do, I see this all the time with some of my friends, acquaintances, family members. It’s I got, you know, I want to shake em and slap em and come on, but I know better, because I understand what’s going on. And if we don’t do our work, if we don’t make this stronger than this, we’re on a leash and we’re not getting off. And that’s tragic. I think it’s really tragic. It’s funny how you know, writing this book, I talked about how the ELI effect my higher self guided me and directed me okay, and we gotta tap into that more, cuz the lower self is basically your animal soul, like in Judaism, they call it the nefesh. It’s all about the 3d stuff, the pleasures, etcetera, etcetera. The higher self is being guided from the Grand designer, okay, it’s tapped into that. And there’s a battle going on sometimes between the higher self and lower self. The higher self knows we’re we’re godly, we’re divine, etc, etc, and knows our essence. But we also have that lower self that wants what it wants. You know, I want them cookies. I want them drugs, you know, I want that pornography, etc, etc, and it’s a battle until you release those lower three chakras, which is where a lot of the survival survival mode comes in. I would say probably 95% of the people I see work with or talk to, are in survival mode because they haven’t cleared out the gunk. That’s why when I teach the rebirthing classes to people, I don’t do it much anymore. And part of the reason why is I love teaching it. I love sharing this amazing technique. But deep down, I don’t know a lot of people that stick with it. I just tell them, do 20 sessions that usually clears out the gunk. Okay? I do it for maintenance, just to make sure it’ll pick up anything. And then there’s another little problem that nobody wants to talk about, the pink elephant in the room, spirit possession. There’s a lot of people that are carrying around critters and they don’t even know it. And so there’s a battle going on inside. I just did a clearing a couple of weeks ago for this young lady, and she was wise enough to know something shifted in her. She was eating food she never ate before. She was obsessing about getting in a car accident. Okay, she never had any of this before, and she was feeling really low, kind of depressed in that. So we checked and yep, she had a critter. Well, ironically, she had a female inside of her who died in a car accident. Well, that’s where all the obsessions came in for that. It’s incredible how this works. And you know my statistics, I’ve been keeping track of this for over 25 years. Everybody that’s ever asked if they’re possessed, we got a yes, 78% of the times. And that doesn’t surprise me, because a lot of people, you know, when we die, we’re not going to the light. We we get stuck here. We’re lonely. Oh, there’s somebody I can move in with. Maybe they’ll have me as a renter, and now I’m stuck with them. So what makes us susceptible to this is low vibration, a lot of survival mode, living, depression, alcohol, drug abuse, things like that. Anger, people that are really rageful seem to get picked on a lot. So keep all this in mind when you’re out there dating folks. Yeah, I probably should come up with a list. Okay, are they possessed? Have they done this? Have they done that? Have they done that? Have they done that? Have not? Yeah, they’re cute, they’re fun. But look out, there’s, there’s a hand grenade waiting for you. Alright, so 90 days, allegedly, the book will be published. So I’ll keep you guys posted. I’m excited when I see my birth name on that book. It’s kind of weird, but I’m excited to be able to spread this wisdom that I’ve been given. Okay, I’m just a good vessel for downloading things. I’m open. Stay open, folks. Alright, enjoy your Saturday weekend here in Northwest Indiana. We’re going to have a lovely weekend. Stay on. Stay out of the. Environment though the air sucks, okay? Bye, bye. You.

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