Coherent Superpositions in Relationships!

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Eli’s talk introduces the concept of a “coherent superposition in relationships,” which is a measurable state indicating the degree of consistent, unified, and predictable alignment between two people’s feelings and actions. Eli and his brother, Tim, use applied kinesiology to “calibrate” this number, with 100% being ideal and numbers below 70% suggesting potential issues, and very low numbers (around 22-24%) indicating an unhealthy and non-coherent relationship marked by unpredictability and inconsistency. Eli offers this calibration service for a small donation, emphasizing its objectivity in helping people overcome delusions about their bond, although he notes that improvement through healing work is difficult if one partner is unwilling to participate.

Key Concepts in Coherent Superposition

• Definition: Coherent superposition in a relationship means that the partners’ feelings and actions are consistently, unifiedly, and predictably intertwined, rather than being inconsistent or jumbled.
• Rabbi Joel’s Teaching: In Torah, coherent superposition is described as “not this, but it’s not not that,” meaning it is both and more than both.
• Coherent Relationship: This type of relationship has a stable, shared direction, clear, consistent communication, and aligned, predictable actions and emotions, similar to two waves with a constant phase difference. This strong connection is predictable and stable, able to withstand external forces. Google defines it as a clear, unified, and consistent bond.
• Non-Coherent Relationship: This is marked by inconsistencies, unpredictable behavior (e.g., “Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde”), and a lack of alignment between partners’ feelings or actions. It is a weak connection that can easily break down, similar to light waves with random phase differences that do not interfere predictably. Google defines it as inconsistent and unpredictable. People in these relationships might say their partner is nice, “but he’s not nice,” or sweet, “but she’s not sweet,” because you never know what you’re getting.

Calibrating the Coherent Superposition Number

• The Number: Eli and his brother can “calibrate” the coherent superposition number for relationships, which can be between romantic partners, siblings, friends, co-workers, or mentors.
• Ideal and Healthy Scores: Ideally, the number would be 100%, though this is rare. Eli and his identical twin brother, Tim, calibrate at 100% because their values, beliefs, and dreams are the same. The twin relationship creates a “third entity” or energy. A healthy relationship should ideally be at least 70% or higher, indicating a lot of alignment.
• Unhealthy Scores: Calibrating at a low number, such as 22% or 24%, suggests the relationship is not healthy and the partners are not connecting well. Eli recommends getting out of a relationship if the number is low, for example, 16%.
• Process: A small, donated fee is charged for the calibration. The client provides permission, and Eli uses Tim’s “exquisite arm for applied kinesiology” to determine the number.

Improving Relationship Coherence

• Raising the Number: It is absolutely possible to raise a low coherence number through healing work, raising consciousness, and clearing lower chakras, as discussed by Joe Dispenza.
• The Challenge: However, the partner is often not interested in doing the necessary work. A relationship marked by inconsistencies and a lack of alignment is unlikely to change much if the partner is unwilling to work on it.
• Advice: Eli advises people to have their relationship calibrated before moving in or getting married because people are often delusional about what is truly there.

Hola! Happy Fry’s Day! Are you fried yet? I’m ready for the weekend. How are you guys? I wanted to discuss something that I found a really good definition yesterday. I googled coherent superposition in relationships. This is something my brother and I do for people in our practice, friends, you know, everybody. What it explains is the relationship between two people. I learned this from Rabbi Joel. He talks about coherent superpositions in Torah and how it’s not this, but it’s not not that. It’s not this, but it’s not not that. It’s both and more than both. So, when we do it for like, if I’m working with a new couple, I like to, I get their permission. You always got to get permission to check their coherent superposition number. Ideally, ideally, you’d like it to be 100%, which is rare, but it can be a friendship. It could be a relationship with a sibling, a co-worker, etc., a mentor, things like that. So, Tim and I, being identical twins and sharing the same womb in that, I guess that helped us, we calibrate at 100% together. So, when we’re together, there’s that third entity, that energy, that we’re just creating this amazing golem, let’s say. If you’re in a relationship or a marriage, it’s calibrating at like 22%, you’re not in a healthy relationship. You’re really not connecting well with your partner. So, let me read what I found on Mr. Google and see if this makes sense. And this is something in the past I’ve talked about. We calibrated. We charge a small fee for this, whatever you want to donate. You go to our website and make a donation, elitheresstorer.com, and then we can calibrate it and get you the number. You can, you know, text me, email me, and then we can do this. But it’s really helpful because people will say, well, like I’m working with this one young lady and she’s kind of blind. Her and her boyfriend, I think, calibrated at 24%, but she thinks they have a wonderful relationship. She’s blinding herself to it. It’s not what I’m going to read you here in a second or two. Okay? Trust it. See, it takes you out of the equation because we see, we’re delusional with our projectors. We see what’s not there. And then once you see it, you can’t unsee it. It’s like, what the hell was I thinking? Okay. All right. So a coherent superposition in a relationship refers to a state where partners’ feelings and actions are intertwined in a consistent, unified, and predictable way, rather than being a jumble of separate and inconsistent feelings. This contrasts with a non-coherent state where there is a lack of consistency and predictable phases, making it difficult to know where each person stands or how they will react. Okay? Really good, right? So, Google says this. Coherent relationship. The relationship has a stable, shared direction and clear, consistent communication where the phases of each person’s actions and emotions are aligned and predictable, much like two waves with a constant phase difference. And this is very quantum, too. So that’s where that came from. This allows, coherency, this allows for a strong, predictable, and stable connection that can withstand external forces like a well-defined superposition in quantum mechanics where the states have a predictable relationship. So if you’ve been in a relationship and it’s all over the place, you know, Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde, you don’t know what the hell is coming, you’re probably in a non-coherent relationship. So let me read what that says. Non-coherent means the relationship is marked by inconsistencies, unpredictable behavior, and a lack of alignment between partners’ feelings or actions. It is more like a mixture of states where the connection is weak and can break down easily. This is similar to light waves with random or dynamic phase differences which do not interfere predictably. So the incoherent relationship is like all over the place. You may hear, like I hear, he’s nice, but he’s not nice. You know, she’s sweet, but she’s not sweet. You never know what you’re getting. Okay? You don’t want to live like that. Okay? It’s hard. It’s distressing. And I get this all the time in my counseling sessions with couples. It’s like, holy shit. Google says, to put it simply, a coherent relationship is one where partners have a clear, unified, and consistent bond, while a non-coherent one is inconsistent and unpredictable. Now you can check this. Like, I’ve got a young lady I’m seeing now, another one. And we calibrated her and her guy, and it was like 24%, but she has a best friend. They calibrated at 100%. So I made a copy of this. I’m going to be passing it out at work for people because it’s hard. You know, I understand what it is, but sometimes it’s ineffable. It’s hard to explain it. So when I found this definition last night, I said, I got to do a video on this because most therapists don’t talk about this. Okay? And to me, if I’m working with a couple and it’s low, like 16%, run, Forrest, run. Get the hell out of it. Okay? Now, can you raise the number? Absolutely. With healing work, with raising your consciousness level, with clearing your lower chakras, like Joe Dispenza talks about, it is possible to be more coherent. But more often than not, your partner’s not going to want to do the work. And like this lady I just talked about, with her guy versus her friend, her guy isn’t interested in doing his work. So what do you do? Hard decision. And I’ve done this for some relatives recently that just got out of marriages or relationships. You know, horrible numbers. No wonder it didn’t work out. Ideally, ideally, ideally, you want it to be at least 70% or higher. Then you got a lot of alignment. Tim and I are at 100 because it’s like we’re one in the same. Even though I call it the twin personality. There’s Tim, there’s Tom, and there’s the twin personality. And we create that. And people can feel that when they’re around us. It’s really cool. I can feel it. It’s just like there’s not a lot of conflict, discrepancies. We see things similarly. Our values are the same. Our beliefs are the same. Our dreams are the same. Okay? It’s really interesting. So, if you’re listening to this and you’re curious and you haven’t done it yet, you can text me. Text me your name, though, because I don’t have a caller ID on my little flippy phone. My cell phone number is 219-616-0619. And then you can go to the website to make a small donation because we were trying to support everything we’re doing with that website. And we’ll calibrate it. Give us a few days because I need Tim’s arm. He’s got an exquisite arm for applied kinesiology. Mine’s a little too strong. And then when Tim and I get together, we can calibrate it. I can text you back the number. I’m not saying… Well, maybe I am saying this. If you’re in a relationship that calibrates at 23% and your partner’s not willing to work on it, but you are, it’s not going to change much, guys. So, then you’re going to have a relationship that is marked by inconsistencies, unpredictable behavior, and a lack of alignment with feelings and actions. Is that what you really want? I want it. Right? I calibrated a relationship. I was in a marriage back in the 90s, and it was pretty low. No wonder it didn’t work out. Now, I didn’t know all this back then. it. What I tell people before you get married or move in or stuff like that, let us calibrate it because you’re delusional. You’re not going to see what’s there. And this number is objective. It takes you right out of the question. We’re tapping into the consciousness grid. It knows things that we can’t know. All right. Enjoy your Friday. Hopefully you’ll get a nice weekend here in Northwestern and we’re getting some sunshine. So I’m excited. And get a hold of us if you’re curious, if you’re brave enough to find out, you know, a lot of people, I tell them what it is and they still stay. It’s like, I ain’t got nothing for you guys. You know, if you think that, that frog, that, that pig is going to fly, go ahead, but I’m not going to support that. Pigs don’t fly. All right. God bless you guys. Love you.