High coherent calibrations don’t always reflect healthy relationships!

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Coherent superposition calibrations measure the degree of alignment and predictability within a relationship, with scores potentially reaching 100% to indicate a state of unison where two individuals function as a single entity. However, Eli emphasizes that a perfect score signifies strong alignment rather than inherent health, illustrated by examples ranging from his positive working relationship with his twin brother to the destructive bond between serial killers and the stable dysfunction of a “crazy” couple. While high numbers usually reflect healthy dynamics, they ultimately confirm that the relationship is consistent and predictable, regardless of whether the shared direction is positive or negative. Eli concludes by offering these calibration services via text and donation, while also announcing his search for new office space in Northwest Indiana due to his brother’s upcoming retirement.

Understanding Coherent Superposition Calibrations

• Eli discusses the concept of “coherent superposition calibrations” which are used to analyze relationships between partners, friends, or coworkers.
• The goal of the calibration is to look for coherency rather than incoherency, as incoherent relationships struggle to connect well.
• A relationship with high coherency has a stable, shared direction with clear and consistent communication.
• These connections allow for predictability and stability that can withstand external forces because the individuals’ emotions and actions are aligned.

The Distinction Between Alignment and Health

• Calibrations can reach as high as 100%, but Eli warns that hitting this maximum number does not always indicate a healthy relationship.
• A 100% score simply means the two parties are perfectly aligned and predictable to one another, acting as if two have become one.
• While high numbers generally reflect healthy relationships, it is necessary to ask if the relationship is dysfunctional, as people can be perfectly aligned in negative behaviors.
• High alignment means the people involved communicate well and things are predictable, but this dynamic can exist even among criminals.

Examples of High Calibrations

• Eli and his twin brother, Tim, calibrated at 100%, signifying that they work in unison, see the world similarly, and experience many synchronicities.
• Conversely, the pair of serial killers featured in Truman Capote’s “In Cold Blood” also had a high calibration because they connected to create a “third entity” capable of murder, which they likely would not have committed individually.
• Eli also recalls a dysfunctional couple known as the “battling Ambersons” who calibrated at 100% because they were perfectly aligned in their “crazy” dynamic and stayed together despite the dysfunction.

Calibration Services Offered

• Eli offers calibration services for those interested in knowing their score with a partner, coworker, or potential business associate.
• Interested parties are asked to make a donation of what they can afford on the website and then text Eli with the relevant names.
• Eli provided his cell phone number, 219-616-0619, for people to request these services.

Personal Updates and Announcements

• Eli wishes the audience a Happy Thanksgiving and mentions he hopes to do a talk on the holiday regarding gratitude.
• He mentions that a book is coming soon, according to his publisher.
• Eli announces that his office lease will end in March and his brother is going to retire.
• He is currently looking for a new, smaller office space in the Highland or Griffith area of Northwest Indiana.

Hola! Happy Tuesday, two days before Turkey Day. Happy Thanksgiving. Don’t be the turkey, it will not go well. So today I want to do a little more discussing about the coherent superposition calibrations my brother and I do for relationships. And I shared the definition the other day and other ideas have come up and I’ll explain those in a minute. So when we calibrate you and your partner, your friend, whoever it is, we are looking for coherency versus incoherency. And that’s a good thing because if you’re incoherent, you know, you’re doing this all the time, you’re just not connecting well. But we’ve done some calibrations that were 100%, which is the highest it can go. One of those is me and my twin brother Tim. When we calibrated ourselves, we were sitting at 100%. So what does that mean? That means we’re in unison. We work well together. There’s a lot of synchronicities. We’re perfectly aligned. Things are predictable. So there’s not a lot of fighting or anything like that because we see the world similarly in that. But a couple of years ago, we did another calibration for a pair of serial killers that work together. These guys were in the book “In Cold Blood” by Truman Capote, the Kansas murders in the late 50s. And these two guys probably would have never became murderers. They killed a family if they hadn’t connected. So when he came in, he came in, they created this third entity. So being at 100% doesn’t always mean it’s healthy. And I’m going to give you another example. There was a couple I worked with years ago, and they’ve always been on my mind. They were the battling ambersons. If anybody was going to end up on Dateline, it was this couple. But they stayed together. They stayed together. It was dysfunctional and crazy. So we calibrated them and they came up 100%. So I’m going to explain something. I’m going to go over this definition a little bit. The relationship has a stable, but the relationship has a stable, shared direction and clear, consistent communication. This allows for a strong, predictable, stable connection that can withstand external forces. Each person’s emotions and actions are perfectly aligned with the other and predictable. So for this couple to stay together, it was dysfunction calibration. Yes, it was not a good marriage. It was a good marriage at the time. But they were perfectly aligned to crazy land, Dateline episode. So when we calibrate these relationships, if it’s high, the second question to ask yourself, is it dysfunctional? Like when Tim and I calibrated at 100%, I know from my experience that we get along well. It’s like the two become one. And other relationships we calibrated or friendships that calibrate really high closer actually at 100%. The person will say, yeah, we get along. It’s like me and another body. But if you calibrate at 100%, it doesn’t mean it’s a healthy relationship. That just means all these things are aligned perfectly. So it could be two serial killers connecting. Or it could be two people like Tim and I connecting and doing all the positive things we do to help people. we do to help people heal in that. So I just wanted to put this out there briefly because since I found that definition, I’ve been chewing on these hundreds that we’ve been getting and we don’t get many. So unfortunately, excuse me, but even something in the upper seventies, eighties, low nineties, it could be a really good alignment where things you can’t count on one another, things are predictable. You communicate well, but even serial killers can do that. So chew on this. Again, if anybody’s interested and they want to know what their calibration is with your partner, a coworker, whoever it is, a potential business partner, let us calibrate and we’ll send it to you. All we ask is make a donation on the website, five bucks, 10 bucks, whatever, you know, you can afford and then text me. Um, and I will get it done. Then I’ll text you back. My cell phone number is 219-616-0619, 616-0619. So if you want to know, just text me, tell me your name, first and last name that we want, want a calibration and who your, who, who your partner is or whoever it is that we’re going to do. And then we’ll see. But generally speaking, you want those numbers to be high because they do reflect healthy relationships. Even the two serial killers got along, even though they were killing people. This couple I’m talking about, even though it was up and down and sideways, but they stayed together because it made sense for their dysfunction. they worked well together. All right. Chew on that. Have a good Turkey day. And I’ll be hopefully doing a talk on Thanksgiving. All the things I’m grateful for, including the book that is coming soon. I keep being told by my publisher. And also if people are in Northwest Indiana, we’re, we’re going to be, um, not leasing our office come into March. And my brother’s going to retire. Thank God he needs that. And I’m going to be looking for a space, hopefully in my area, Highland or Griffith. If you’re in this area, if you know, anybody that’s got a little office, I can still see people until the big thing comes, which I’m not going to talk about, but there’s something big coming. once this book starts selling. All right. Love you guys. Take care. Bye-bye.