Consciousness levels and our relationship issues

Hola, happy Friday, we made it. So today, I want to do a short talk about Dr. Hawkins work, the map of consciousness, how consciousness levels and relationships go together. You know, I’ve been doing a lot a couple therapy for 44 years now. And since I’ve been calibrating partners consciousness levels, it’s opened up a whole new avenue of awareness for our clients. And Tim and I do this in our practice, he does it with the population he works with. And the problem that I’ve discovered is if one partner is three or four levels higher than their other partner, or even higher, the relationship is going to be really challenging, because the person at the lower level, and again, this is not judgment, this discernment will not be about understand the person at the higher level, they’re just in a different reality. So they may listen to you hear your words, but they don’t have the capacity to use the words to understand. And when I work with the higher one, they get really frustrated. Because he or she doesn’t understand me, they don’t know what I’m talking about. Well, I tell them, basically, you’re talking Hebrew. And if they don’t understand Hebrew, you might as well shut up. whatever level you’re at is how you see the world, how you deal with the world, how you perceive the world, how you are in the world. When people aren’t an acceptance, let’s say they’re less egotistical, they’re less in resistance mode, they go with the flow more. When people are in pride, it’s about ego, it’s about inflation. It’s about I know what’s best, they get really defensive when they get called out. And they can’t help it. See, that’s the thing, the hardest thing for me to teach people, especially for the higher consciousness partner, your partner cannot help the way they are, you know, what does the dog do when the doorbell rings, it barks, it’s wired into them, don’t yell at them, you know, people are asleep and don’t get mad at them. That’s what dogs do. Now, I’m not saying we’re a dog, so don’t go there. Okay. But it’s just in their, in their consciousness level is dogs at a lower level of consciousness, of course. So when you’re trying to explain things to your partner, and they, they hear it, you get excited, you think they’re getting it. But they revert back to their old behavior immediately. Because that’s the level of consciousness it’s it controls you. It sets the computer, you can’t help it, you are who you are. I just had a friend of mine stop by he was still putting band aids on that, that surgery I had to have. And I was telling him he’s he’s at a certain level and his wife’s at another level. And I said, Doc, see what what what this did for me understanding Hawkins worked in the last 25 or so years, is to have more understanding compassion for people. Now, I’m really careful with who I hang out with, I’m not going to hang out with a bunch of anger people or pride people, I just don’t enjoy that. It’s hard to communicate to them. Because they you know, I’m as we move like that, because they don’t get it, they can’t get it. And one of the books from Dr. Hawkins transcending the levels of consciousness, I highly recommend that for people, because it helps them understand all of this, because in that book, they have a long section six or seven pages on each of the levels. And then what you can do to go up to the next level to the next level. Now, my belief, and this is what keeps our consciousness down. Stuck emotions, belief systems that no longer work, but it’s mostly the emotions. And if you don’t do your mud work, you’re not going to go out much you don’t. Well, I did a lot of rebirthing breathwork over the years. And a couple years back, my brother and I calibrated that. How much did my conscious consciousness level go up during rebirthing? Since I’ve done it 20 to 30 points. I’m in a whole new universe, psychodrama when we do that mud work. We calibrate people after the work, and typically they go up 4075 points. They go up one or two levels, because they’re releasing all the old emotion, this stuck stuff that’s inside of us. You know, Dr. Hawkins, the guy that created this was the psychiatrists at one time until he got into consciousness. And he said he would walk around a psychiatric unit right? And he wouldn’t see that diagnoses, he would see consciousness levels. So typically, the paranoid people were in fear level, the narcissists were in pride level. So I’m working on this myself now to kind of combine the two, to identify. If you’re, if you’re in a certain level, like people that are suffering from grief, there’s actually a grief level, I think it’s 75, it’s pretty low. So what he was able to do is step above the diagnoses to see the core problem, your consciousness level. It’s so simple, right? But the problem is, when we’re in relationships, whether it’s our family, partners, friends, and that, and I hear this all the time from my clients, as they’re growing and changing the the old relationships start to be amputated, because they no longer connected these people, they’ve gone up, but their friends or family have stayed down here. Now, that doesn’t mean you abandon people or anything, necessarily, but you got to get more protective, and more discerning. Like what I get together with people I know that are a lot lower than me, I go into that understanding that it’s going to be a different kind of event. Yes, last night, we had a poker game here watching the NFL Draft. And everybody in this room was here last night has different levels. And you could see the levels by the communication, the discussions that were talked about was really crazy. When you understand this, that’s why I’m saying pick up his book, transcending levels of consciousness, it’ll give you a really good way of looking at people through a different set of eyes. Because your consciousness level dictates everything. No doubt my mind. If you’re in private land, you’re going to be in private land, you see the world you get defensive, you’re you’re egotistical, you have a sense of inflated self and all that, okay, they can’t help that. Now, if you work on yourself, you can start creeping up, you know, what we do soul retrievals, we calibrated, which is a consciousness go up from just one soul retrieval is really usually 20 to 40 points. Now, that’s not this way. It’s this way exponentially push you into a new level, then you have to adjust to it. So if any of you guys out there are having, you know, problems and relationships, this is another way another angle of understanding it and looking at it, which is really helpful. The other thing we do, and this is on the website, if you’re in a relationship with somebody, and we call it a coherent superposition, so me and this other person, what is the most coherent number between the two? Ideally you want that to be 100? Rarely have we run into that number. So it’s the chemistry between the two. So that’s another way of understanding how mixing two levels of consciousness what that number is, and it’s usually the person with the lower level brings it down, unfortunately, so hopefully this has been helpful. Get a hold of us if you’re interested in calibrating yourself, or give me a call. You know, we can set up an appointment here in Northwest Indiana and then and to learn about consciousness but pick up Hawkins book, it’s only about 20 bucks, so it’s pretty cheap. Well worth the $20 investment Mrs. Amazon will deliver it to All right. Have a good weekend. Happy Friday. Love you guys. Stay in touch, and I’ll be doing more of these insightful talks. God bless you