A new calibration to see if your partner is truly aligned with you!

Eli, Memorial Day, applied kinesiology, coherent superposition, relationship alignment, authenticity, dating, calibration, personal healing, divorce rate

In his talk, Eli discusses how he and his brother use applied kinesiology to measure the alignment, or “coherent superposition,” of couples. He warns that early relationship scores can be misleadingly high because people often hide their true selves and unhealed traumas. To combat this and help prevent future divorces, they offer a service that recalculates a couple’s score based on true authenticity to reveal potential compatibility issues before serious commitments are made.

Introduction to Relationship Calibration

• In his talk, Eli introduces a quantum physics concept called “coherent superposition” that he and his brother use to measure relationship alignment through applied kinesiology.
• The ideal calibration number for a couple is at least 70%, which indicates a high level of alignment and cooperation.

The Challenge of Inauthenticity in Dating

• Eli explains that individuals, particularly men, often hide their flaws and manipulate their partners at the beginning of a relationship.
• The initial calibration measures what the couple is currently exhibiting, which means it can inaccurately reflect a high score if one person is faking their behavior.

Real-World Calibration Examples

• In one instance, a couple’s initial score of 68 to 71 plummeted to 28 when recalibrated by asking what the number would be if the man was completely authentic.
• Another example involving a family member showed a drop from an initial score of around 71 down to 24% when assessing the partner’s true colors from the start.

The Necessity of Personal Healing

• Eli warns that unhealed past trauma, such as having an abusive or alcoholic parent, will inevitably surface in a relationship.
• He advises asking potential partners about the healing work they have done, and strongly suggests leaving the relationship if they have not addressed their past.

Calibration Services and Final Advice

• Eli and his brother offer this specific calibration service through their website for a small fee or donation to help people avoid making serious commitments to inauthentic partners.
• He concludes his talk by noting that the country’s high divorce rate of 50 to 60% is partially due to people being deceived early in their relationships.

Hola, happy Memorial Day. Hopefully you’re remembering what’s important today and to honor that. Who we used to be and who we are today. My old self, my higher self, you know, the veterans, whatever you guys want to do, family members, go visit the cemetery. So I wanted to explain something that my brother and I have figured out. We do this calibration using applied kinesiology. It’s called a coherent superposition. It’s a quantum physics concept, but when a couple, let’s say for instance, is in a relationship, we can see how coherent and how aligned they are. Ideally, you want that number to be at least 70% because the higher it is, the more alignment and, you know, things are working together. But it’s become clear to us that sometimes when somebody’s dating somebody, they may not be being authentic right away. They’re hiding their warts. They’re conning you. They’re manipulating you. And that’s bothersome because so many people that I’ve worked with, especially women, it seems like men are better at this than women playing that game. I don’t know if we learned that early or what, but they think they’re with this person or marrying this person. And then later they find out it’s a whole different person. So how the hell does that happen? And recently, maybe six months ago, I had calibrated a couple. She was going through a couple. She was going through a divorce or something. And their number, I think was 68 or 71. It was really a decent number. But recently, she has been seeing a different side to this guy. It’s like, who the heck are you? Well, guess what? He wasn’t being real and authentic. And so last night, my brother and I calibrated this. What would the number be, the coherent number, if he was being authentic and real all the time? The number went from up here to 28. Holy cow. Let’s say a prayer for that. And I texted it to her last night. And, you know, I think she’s seeing it. But this is just one example. We did another one on Mother’s Day for one of our family members. She had fallen for some guy about 11, 12 years ago. And the number back then was, I think, 71 or something. It was really decent. Okay. Well, we asked the question, what would that number be if he had been being authentic right at the beginning, showing his true colors? I think it was like 24%. I’m going to throw up with that one. So this is something we’ve been playing with, just becoming more aware. So when we do the coherent superposition number, because you’re probably wondering, why doesn’t it pick it up? It’s what the couple is exhibiting. That’s what we’re calibrating. How coherent are they? Whether he’s being a fake or she’s being a fake. So that’s the calibration we were getting. But then we started to see some problems in the relationships down the road. We started to question this. You know, the twins are always learning new things in that. And what it turns out to be is when we ask the question a different way, what would that number be if he, you know, usually if it’s a guy acting up, what would that number look like if he was being authentic right from the beginning? Well, we could get that answer. And so we’re going to be doing this more and more. So before you decide to fall in love, guys, I get this old saying is if it seems too good to be true, it probably isn’t. Because everybody’s got stuff, right? But if it feels perfect, we’re in such alignment. Oh, he gets me and all that or she gets me. We’ll be a little leery. Okay, unless you’re dating yourself, then it’s really very coherent, right? So if anybody’s interested in this, reach out on our website. We charge a small fee for this. You can make a donation. And then we will get back to you. But before you take that leap of faith, because this thing, the subconscious mind, everything, it blocks things. Right? And it could be scary. Because once you’re in, you decide to get married, you got kids, then it’s really hard to dig out of that grave. So I wish my dream, I guess, is for Tim and I to start doing this for people. And to, before they get real serious, have this information available. Because we can fake out ourselves into thinking it’s greater than it is. And when the other person you’re with is faking it, is it real or is it Memorex? Okay, well this cuts through that. And people, you know, changing people is very difficult. I’ve been trying for 44 years. They have to be really committed. But it takes a special commitment to do that and discipline. But usually you come into a relationship with all your warts, all your past stuff, unhealed in that. And it’s going to come out in the relationship. It always does. If they don’t work on themselves. If they don’t work on themselves, that’s another clue. You know, if you know there was an alcoholic father, abuse, whatever it was, you ask that question. Well, what kind of healing work have you done, dear? And if they say nothing, bye, because you’re going to pay for it. Always I see this. All right. Enjoy your holiday here in Northwest Indiana. We’re getting blessed. We’ve got the mid-80s today, sunny day. So I think our pool is opening up where I live here. So I think I’m going to go hang out for a little bit and do some reading. So enjoy your day, whatever it is you want to do. And remember, nothing is as it appears sometimes. Be cautious. You know, you think about that divorce rate in this country, up to 50 or 60%. This is partly why, because you get faked out. And then you got to get out. Dig that grave. All right. Love you guys. Bye-bye.